“This is boring.” That’s what my oncologist said as he read me the report from the CT scan of my abdomen and pelvis. Then he looked up at me and smiled. “That’s what we want.” I asked if I could see the actual scan as I am having a hard time with my visual meditation of having God hold my body, or seeing my body healthy. He said, “Visualize this as a pelvic space with only normal organs with nothing there that shouldn’t be.” Yeah, I can do that.
Oh, that’s right, you still think I was getting a PET scan. That was one reason I haven’t written in here, I was feeling a little more than miffed. I left Boston feeling very cared for and as if my treatment had a direction. And chemo was over, yayy! Then I found out my insurance did not approve the PET scan and wham! down I went into a spiral of depression and anger. Who did they think they were to dictate my care? And if I didn’t get my port out right away I would be responsible for more money out of pocket! It was all an insurance conspiracy to keep me in a place of fear!
I did talk to my surgeon who told me that gynecological cancers do not respond to PET scans because they progress slower than other cancers and do not take up the glucose in the same way and so the scans are not accurate. That explanation was enough to satisfy my anger and I could stop fighting. That’s all I need, an explanation. I am not a “because I said so” kind of person. Now if only God could explain to my why all this is happening…
I also found out that my white blood cell count is still too low for chemo, so I would still be waiting for my last round if my doctor in Boston hadn’t said 5 was enough. I had thought my chemo doctor was checking my B-12 and Vit D levels since I had told them my levels tended to be low since I had the gastric bypass and couldn’t absorb nutrients like “normal” people. I remember them saying, “don’t worry, we’ll take care of you” and I assumed that meant they were checking my levels. Then I found out they weren’t. So I went to my PCP and had them checked and found out my Vit D is indeed low (not dangerously.) But Vit D is needed for WBC manufacturing. Communication, folks, it’s all about communication. Trust me, I am not about to go sunbathe in this frigid weather, but I will increase my supplements.
I see my radiologist next week. I will get my port out soon. And this is good, because I keep hitting it when I play the chimes or handbells in church. (Things they don’t warn you about before they put one in.)
Tomorrow I get to speak to an OA audience on remaining abstinent no matter what: “Don’t pick up even if your hair falls out.” I am feeling a little unworthy. Not because I picked up the food, I didn’t, but because I began to doubt God and myself. I guess I still want to believe that magical things happen when I lose weight. Wait, the truth is, magical things DO happen. I want to believe only good things happen. Another truth is, I can be abstinent and have a bad day. But more often than not, when I am abstinent, I will get through them faster.